July 2013 PMID 23554177

Are narcissists sexy? Zeroing in on the effect of narcissism on short-term mate appeal.

Michael Dufner, John F Rauthmann, Anna Z Czarna, Jaap J A Denissen

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Peak: 2 in May 2024
across 7 sources since May 2019

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AI synopsis

What people are saying

The discussions reflect a keen interest in how narcissism influences short-term appeal, with comments like 'female narcissists come across as sexually provocative' and mentions of self-promotion strategies, showing how tone and focus on attractiveness and social boldness foster a generally positive but critical view of narcissists’ appeal in fleeting relationships.

AgreementModerate agreement

Most discussions recognize that narcissists tend to be more attractive in the context of short-term relationships, aligning with the article's findings.

InterestHigh interest

The posts show a high level of curiosity about the link between narcissism and physical/social appeal, especially with mentions of gender differences and mate preferences.

EngagementModerate engagement

Participants reference specific aspects such as social boldness and attractiveness, indicating moderate engagement with the research details.

ImpactModerate impact

The discussions highlight the relevance of these findings to understanding attraction and social dynamics, but do not suggest major societal impact.

Abstract in brief

  • This research investigated whether narcissists are seen as attractive short-term romantic or sexual partners, finding that narcissism generally increases mate appeal mainly because of physical attractiveness and social boldness.
  • The studies, which involved ratings of friends, natural courtship interactions, and mate appeal indicators, showed that narcissists tend to be more appealing due to a sense of confidence and attractiveness rather than lack of empathy.
  • Overall, narcissism has a stronger positive effect on mate appeal for short-term relationships than for long-term friendships.]

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JXG
@JohnXGaspar · X

Narcissists are appealing romantic partners, at first. Female narcissists often come across as sexually provocative and sexually desirable. Male narcissists spend a lot of effort on self-promotion and tend to exaggerate their success. https://t.co/88GaPwvWiq https://t.co/UwhD3kF5i6

Nov 29, 2023 · 1 like · 577 followers View post →
Sarah Szalavitz
@dearsarah.bsky.social · Bluesky

And here’s a link to the study that broken link was based on:) Are Narcissists Sexy? Zeroing in on the Link Between Narcissism and Short-Term Mate Appeal www.researchgate.net/publication/...

Nov 21, 2024 · 1 like · 1 share View post →
neuropsych
@neuropsychfacts · X

Narcissists can make appealing short-term romantic partners. Female narcissists often come across as sexually provocative and sexually desirable. Male narcissists spend a lot of effort on self-promotion and will exaggerate their success. https://t.co/6gvCTZQ4cl

Jan 19, 2021 · 121 followers View post →
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@aplayersjourney · X

@ICooperAuthor @jackiebarbosa With that said: Narc preference was mediated by looks and social boldness here: https://t.co/8eCfobmZes Also meta-analyses on ovulatory shifts in womens preferences have been inconclusive, and some research found women to be attracted to 'niceness' even in short term contexts

May 29, 2019 · 21 followers View post →

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Sarah Szalavitz
@dearsarah.bsky.social · Bluesky

And here’s a link to the study that broken link was based on:) Are Narcissists Sexy? Zeroing in on the Link Between Narcissism and Short-Term Mate Appeal www.researchgate.net/publication/...

Nov 21, 2024 · 1 like · 1 share View post →
JXG
@JohnXGaspar · X

Narcissists are appealing romantic partners, at first. Female narcissists often come across as sexually provocative and sexually desirable. Male narcissists spend a lot of effort on self-promotion and tend to exaggerate their success. https://t.co/88GaPwvWiq https://t.co/UwhD3kF5i6

Nov 29, 2023 · 1 like · 577 followers View post →
neuropsych
@neuropsychfacts · X

Narcissists can make appealing short-term romantic partners. Female narcissists often come across as sexually provocative and sexually desirable. Male narcissists spend a lot of effort on self-promotion and will exaggerate their success. https://t.co/6gvCTZQ4cl

Jan 19, 2021 · 121 followers View post →
Getting Shredded
@aplayersjourney · X

@ICooperAuthor @jackiebarbosa With that said: Narc preference was mediated by looks and social boldness here: https://t.co/8eCfobmZes Also meta-analyses on ovulatory shifts in womens preferences have been inconclusive, and some research found women to be attracted to 'niceness' even in short term contexts

May 29, 2019 · 21 followers View post →