J Pers Soc Psychol February 2017 PMID 27560609

Narcissism and romantic relationships: The differential impact of narcissistic admiration and rivalry.

Stefanie N Wurst, Tanja M Gerlach, Michael Dufner, John F Rauthmann, Michael P Grosz, Albrecht C P Küfner, Jaap J A Denissen, Mitja D Back

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Discussions highlight the dual roles of narcissistic admiration creating short-term attraction versus rivalry causing relationship issues, using terms like 'short-term boost' and 'long-term problems,' which reflect a nuanced understanding. The tone varies from analytical to practical, emphasizing the study’s relevance and potential impact on relationship dynamics.

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Narcissism influences romantic relationships in different ways, helping in short-term attraction but causing problems in long-term commitments, depending on whether the narcissistic traits are focused on admiration or rivalry.
Narcissistic admiration involves seeking social praise and positive self-promotion, which boosts short-term romantic appeal, while narcissistic rivalry involves defending a negative self-view by criticizing others, leading to long-term relationship issues.
The study's findings, based on 7 different studies with over 3,500 participants, suggest that understanding these two dimensions of narcissism provides a clearer picture of their complex effects on romantic relationships over time.]

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