Most discussions express support for the article's findings, with examples like references to the study by Gilbert (2008) about revenge’s negative effects, along with comments questioning our assumptions about revenge providing satisfaction. The tone varies from analytical to skeptical, demonstrating active engagement with the research and its implications.
AgreementModerate agreement
Most discussions acknowledge the paradoxical nature of revenge discussed in the publication, supporting its conclusions that revenge can backfire emotionally.
InterestHigh interest
Participants show high interest, referencing specific studies and discussing emotional effects, indicating engagement with the topic.
EngagementHigh engagement
Posts include reflections, mentions of research, and debates over the emotional impact, showing deep engagement.
ImpactModerate impact
While some comments note that the findings challenge common beliefs about revenge, overall this reinforces awareness rather than causing drastic change, hence a moderate impact score.
Abstract in brief
People often think that punishing someone will make them feel better, but sometimes revenge actually makes them feel worse instead of happier.
The studies revealed that people who punish tend to obsess over the offender afterward, which prolongs negative feelings, while those who don't punish forget about the incident more quickly.
Additionally, people underestimate how their feelings differ depending on whether they are the ones punishing or just witnessing punishment, affecting their expectations about the emotional outcomes.]
復讐するとスッキリせずむしろイライラすることを科学的に証明した研究。
理由の一つは、復讐しなければ「前に進める」のに、復讐するとその攻撃者のことを思い出し続けてしまうことだそう。
いろんな作品の登場人物に教えてあげたい。
Carlsmith, et al., “The Paradoxical Consequences of Revenge”
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1. Liability claims and cost before and after implementatiom of a medical error disclosure program, Kachalia dkk, 2010
2. The paradoxical consequences of revenge, Carlsmith dkk, 2008
3. The benefit, cost, and paradox of revenge, Schuman, 2010
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Prasetja
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However, ternyata kecil kemungkinan kita akan dapat “kepuasan” setelah balas dendam.
Penelitian menarik oleh Gilbert, (2008; DOI: 10.1037/a0012165) nemuin bahwa balas dendam ga serta merta memberikan efek puas, malahan bisa memperburuk kondisi korban.
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Prasetja
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@wencod Betul sekali, karena rasa sakit itu ada pada diri yang merasa, bukan pada pelaku, sehingga kita yang perlu secara aktif memproses rasa sakitnya supaya lega.
Kalau dendam malah berputar-putar terus dalam kepala dan menetap, ini ada papernya kalau mau baca: https://t.co/OwStQvChwx
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Sources:
Carlsmith, K. M., Wilson, T. D., & Gilbert, D. T. (2008). The paradoxical consequences of revenge. Journal of personality and social psychology, 95(6), 1316.
復讐するとスッキリせずむしろイライラすることを科学的に証明した研究。
理由の一つは、復讐しなければ「前に進める」のに、復讐するとその攻撃者のことを思い出し続けてしまうことだそう。
いろんな作品の登場人物に教えてあげたい。
Carlsmith, et al., “The Paradoxical Consequences of Revenge”
@wencod Betul sekali, karena rasa sakit itu ada pada diri yang merasa, bukan pada pelaku, sehingga kita yang perlu secara aktif memproses rasa sakitnya supaya lega.
Kalau dendam malah berputar-putar terus dalam kepala dan menetap, ini ada papernya kalau mau baca: https://t.co/OwStQvChwx
Mar 17, 2024 · 5 likes · 12,385 followersView post →
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RT @IamPrasPrasetja: However, ternyata kecil kemungkinan kita akan dapat “kepuasan” setelah balas dendam.
Penelitian menarik oleh Gilbert,…
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RT @IamPrasPrasetja: However, ternyata kecil kemungkinan kita akan dapat “kepuasan” setelah balas dendam.
Penelitian menarik oleh Gilbert,…
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RT @IamPrasPrasetja: However, ternyata kecil kemungkinan kita akan dapat “kepuasan” setelah balas dendam.
Penelitian menarik oleh Gilbert,…
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Prasetja
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However, ternyata kecil kemungkinan kita akan dapat “kepuasan” setelah balas dendam.
Penelitian menarik oleh Gilbert, (2008; DOI: 10.1037/a0012165) nemuin bahwa balas dendam ga serta merta memberikan efek puas, malahan bisa memperburuk kondisi korban.
Jan 30, 2024 · 18 likes · 4 shares · 12,385 followersView post →
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報復の逆説的な結果についての研究。
報復者は加害者について思考し続け,非報復者はあまり考えなくなる。人々は罰の目撃と自ら罰を与えることの感情的な結果の違いを理解していないことが多い。
Carlsmith, K. M., Wilson, T. D., & Gilbert, D. T. (2008). https://t.co/WsRqPVhWMc
@melvgns @DesDetenus Je sais pas si c'est pas un soulagement malsain, illusoire.
C'est une sorte de vengeance, et la vengeance ce n'est pas le deuil, ce serait même plutôt l'inverse, donc je suis assez septique.
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3. The benefit, cost, and paradox of revenge, Schuman, 2010
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The paradoxical consequences of revenge. https://t.co/inGe9pBKGQ People expect to reap hedonic rewards when they punish an offender, but in at least some instances, revenge has hedonic consequences that are precisely the opposite of what people expect.
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