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August 2015 PMID 26055389

The Role of Overconfidence in Romantic Desirability and Competition.

Sean C Murphy, William von Hippel, Shelli L Dubbs, Michael J Angilletta, Robbie S Wilson, Robert Trivers, Fiona Kate Barlow

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The overall discussions reflect strong interest in how overconfidence impacts romantic interactions, with examples like comments on natural flirting vs. manipulation and the social perception of overconfident individuals, highlighting the relevance and nuanced understanding of the article's themes. The tone combines curiosity and critique, contributing to moderate engagement and acknowledgment of the article's broader implications.

AgreementModerate agreement

Most discussions acknowledge that overconfidence can have both positive and negative effects on romantic desirability, aligning with the article's nuanced findings.

InterestHigh interest

The topics of confidence, manipulation, and their influence on attraction naturally attract high interest, reflected in the enthusiastic tone and emphasis on social dynamics.

EngagementModerate engagement

Participants engage by sharing opinions and examples—some mention the idea of natural seduction versus emotional manipulation—showing thoughtful involvement.

ImpactModerate impact

The conversations hint at significant implications for understanding dating strategies and self-perception, albeit indirectly, suggesting modest but meaningful influence.

Abstract in brief

  • Overconfidence in self-assessments can boost attractiveness because it makes individuals appear more confident, which is seen as desirable in romantic contexts.
  • While overconfident people may be perceived as arrogant, which can hurt their attractiveness, their confidence still gives them an edge in competing with others for romantic partners.
  • The studies and simulation suggest that overconfidence helps people succeed in attracting mates mainly by reducing direct competition, making overconfident individuals more likely to win romantic pursuits despite potential negative perceptions.
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Yudai Tokumasu
@hakusan09 · X

なんで自信過剰な人がいるのか。自信過剰だと恋愛に積極的になれる利点がある。恋のかけひきというギャンブルでは(gambling in the game of love)、自信過剰も時には大事なのではないかと著者たちは主張。2015年。https://t.co/Gy47Lz1N35

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PsicoVlog
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ଲ(ⓛ ω ⓛ)ଲ ammonii ~
@redammonii · X

https://t.co/wRSQD0Nwri no se queden con quienes buscan generar ansiedad mediante la manipulación; la seducción debe ser natural, un juego divertido y candente. no una tortura emocional. Es tan bonito sentirte feliz y atraído por cada acción que hace la persona que te interesa.

Aug 4, 2022 · 2 likes · 753 followers View post →
Sasuke Ueda
@SasukeUeda · X

【自信過剰が恋愛の成功に役立つか】自信過剰と異性が評価した望ましさの関連を、異性が評価した自信(+)と傲慢さ(-)がそれぞれ媒介し打ち消すため、全体として自信過剰は異性評価の望ましさに影響しない。だが、自信、傲慢さは共に競争相手を退かせるため恋愛の成功に役立つ。 https://t.co/etFOXVqxgA

Aug 22, 2020 · 1 like · 610 followers View post →
André Spicer
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Is over confidence a turn-off? experimental study found People with over confident dating profiles perceived as desirable yet arrogant. Overconfidence tended to drive off less confident competitors, making over confident more like likely to find a date. https://t.co/zpozAEQUdr https://t.co/4TUen6QBDk

Feb 15, 2020 · 15,144 followers View post →
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@tamio0524 · X

RT @hakusan09: なんで自信過剰な人がいるのか。自信過剰だと恋愛に積極的になれる利点がある。恋のかけひきというギャンブルでは(gambling in the game of love)、自信過剰も時には大事なのではないかと著者たちは主張。2015年。https://…

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https://t.co/wRSQD0Nwri no se queden con quienes buscan generar ansiedad mediante la manipulación; la seducción debe ser natural, un juego divertido y candente. no una tortura emocional. Es tan bonito sentirte feliz y atraído por cada acción que hace la persona que te interesa.

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RT @hakusan09: なんで自信過剰な人がいるのか。自信過剰だと恋愛に積極的になれる利点がある。恋のかけひきというギャンブルでは(gambling in the game of love)、自信過剰も時には大事なのではないかと著者たちは主張。2015年。https://…

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RT @hakusan09: なんで自信過剰な人がいるのか。自信過剰だと恋愛に積極的になれる利点がある。恋のかけひきというギャンブルでは(gambling in the game of love)、自信過剰も時には大事なのではないかと著者たちは主張。2015年。https://…

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光の中から現れた短期決戦の鬼和田豊
@tamio0524 · X

RT @hakusan09: なんで自信過剰な人がいるのか。自信過剰だと恋愛に積極的になれる利点がある。恋のかけひきというギャンブルでは(gambling in the game of love)、自信過剰も時には大事なのではないかと著者たちは主張。2015年。https://…

Oct 5, 2020 · 3 shares · 1,011 followers View post →
Yudai Tokumasu
@hakusan09 · X

なんで自信過剰な人がいるのか。自信過剰だと恋愛に積極的になれる利点がある。恋のかけひきというギャンブルでは(gambling in the game of love)、自信過剰も時には大事なのではないかと著者たちは主張。2015年。https://t.co/Gy47Lz1N35

Oct 5, 2020 · 11 likes · 3 shares · 699 followers View post →
Sasuke Ueda
@SasukeUeda · X

【自信過剰が恋愛の成功に役立つか】自信過剰と異性が評価した望ましさの関連を、異性が評価した自信(+)と傲慢さ(-)がそれぞれ媒介し打ち消すため、全体として自信過剰は異性評価の望ましさに影響しない。だが、自信、傲慢さは共に競争相手を退かせるため恋愛の成功に役立つ。 https://t.co/etFOXVqxgA

Aug 22, 2020 · 1 like · 610 followers View post →
André Spicer
@andre_spicer · X

Is over confidence a turn-off? experimental study found People with over confident dating profiles perceived as desirable yet arrogant. Overconfidence tended to drive off less confident competitors, making over confident more like likely to find a date. https://t.co/zpozAEQUdr https://t.co/4TUen6QBDk

Feb 15, 2020 · 15,144 followers View post →
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