@robinhanson Apologising doesn't work. You should never bend the knee to any form of identity politics, no matter how supposedly well intentioned it is. https://t.co/9Nxri4qk2Y
When Saying Sorry May Not Help: The Impact of Apologies on Social Rejections.
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Discussions highlight that apologies may sometimes backfire, as seen in comments about how apologies can increase attacks or be perceived as moral permission for harassment, exemplified by phrases like 'apologizing increases the attacks,' and debates about sincerity. The tone varies from skeptical to contemplative, reflecting nuanced views on the social consequences of apologies.
Most posts express skepticism or disagreement with the idea that apologies are effective in reducing social conflict, reflecting reservations about their actual impact.
Posts show moderate interest, discussing the social and psychological dynamics of apologies and social rejection without deep technical analysis.
The discussions engage with examples and opinions, such as the notion that apologies can sometimes worsen attacks, indicating active participation.
The collective sentiment suggests a belief that apologies have limited or even negative effects in social rejection contexts, implying a low to moderate perceived influence.
Abstract in brief
- Apologies in social rejections can increase hurt feelings and aggressive responses, even though they are often used in rejection scenarios.
- People tend to feel more pressured to forgive when an apology is involved, but this doesn't necessarily mean they actually feel more forgiving.
- The studies suggest that apologizing during rejection may not help mend hurt feelings and could even lead to more negative reactions overall.
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Most liked on X and BlueskyA propósito de tuiteros y sus disculpas públicas recientes en redes sociales. En ocasiones, disculparse incrementa los ataques, en vez de reducirlos. Como que para algun@s las disculpas nos dan un permiso moral, en donde nos justificamos el linchamiento. https://t.co/F0NMTtnPjz
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Understanding When Apologies May Exacerbate Social Rejections
Apologies are often used in social rejection scenarios. However, research indicates that they can increase hurt feelings and provoke aggressive responses, potentially worsening the situation rather than improving it.
RT @carbauche: A propósito de tuiteros y sus disculpas públicas recientes en redes sociales. En ocasiones, disculparse incrementa los ataqu…
RT @carbauche: A propósito de tuiteros y sus disculpas públicas recientes en redes sociales. En ocasiones, disculparse incrementa los ataqu…
A propósito de tuiteros y sus disculpas públicas recientes en redes sociales. En ocasiones, disculparse incrementa los ataques, en vez de reducirlos. Como que para algun@s las disculpas nos dan un permiso moral, en donde nos justificamos el linchamiento. https://t.co/F0NMTtnPjz
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@robinhanson Apologising doesn't work. You should never bend the knee to any form of identity politics, no matter how supposedly well intentioned it is. https://t.co/9Nxri4qk2Y
@luluskumloudhe @aggravatingg Oh dont worry https://t.co/LVKA8F0yMY