November 2017 PMID 28857141

When Parents' Praise Inflates, Children's Self-Esteem Deflates.

Eddie Brummelman, Stefanie A Nelemans, Sander Thomaes, Bram Orobio de Castro

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Discussions consistently reference the article’s main points, such as the connection between inflated praise and decreased self-esteem, emphasizing the potential harm with phrases like 'lower self-esteem' and 'counterproductive to growth.' The tone reflects concern and curiosity, and the mention of science underscores the perceived importance of these findings, highlighting their potential significance for parenting practices.

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Most discussions acknowledge the research findings, especially the link between inflated praise and lower self-esteem, with some noting the nuance involving narcissism and high self-esteem children.

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Posts show high interest due to references to scientific concerns and articles, indicating curiosity about the effects of parental praise.

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There is moderate engagement, with users reflecting on broader issues of child development and expressing concern, though limited in-depth analysis or debate.

ImpactModerate impact

The conversations suggest some recognition of the importance of parental praise methods, but the overall impact appears moderate, mainly raising awareness rather than prompting deep change.

Abstract in brief

Inflated praise from parents can lead to lower self-esteem in children over time, supporting the idea that it sets unrealistic standards and causes self-deflation.
Children who receive inflated praise may develop narcissistic tendencies, but mostly if they already have high self-esteem, indicating some support for the self-inflation hypothesis.
Noninflated praise doesn't significantly impact children's self-esteem or narcissism, suggesting that overly positive praise might actually reinforce the very traits it aims to discourage.]

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RT @unaiaso: Los elogios "inflados" predicen una menor autoestima en niños (y un mayor narcisismo, pero solo en niños con alta autoestima).…

Jul 13, 2023 · 1 share · 14 followers View post →

Unai Aso | Psicólogo Sanitario

@unaiaso · X

Los elogios "inflados" predicen una menor autoestima en niños (y un mayor narcisismo, pero solo en niños con alta autoestima). https://t.co/bIYwNKjBQA

Jul 13, 2023 · 1 like · 1 share · 2,264 followers View post →

Psyacademy

@psyacademy_ · X

Artículo completo ⬇️ https://t.co/zboLk5WMVw

Jul 7, 2023 · 2 likes · 5,871 followers View post →

Fiona

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